Same old same old, Thanksgiving was the big football game, Easton won of course
Typical day. I don't like turkey so I made an oven stuffer and had all the trimmings, just me and my husband as the kids were with their dad. No luck finding a job. This Christmas won't be a gift galore! I am going to make some gifts for the fam. I found a recipe for bath salts or fizzies in a magazine. The trouble is I have to buy a silicone ice cube tray, although I haven't tried it with a regular tray. I do have a lot of crafty items and I think I can come up with some neato gifts. The internet is a wealth of info in how to make things. Sometimes I wonder if people enjoy these home made gifts. So I hear from others about their lousy x-mases and how there are no gifts or not a lot of gifts and I'm thinking it blows that it will be a lousy x-mas because one cannot get everything that everybody wants. Do we have to get 15 presents each? I would love to be able to get everything my kids want as I'm sure most people feel this way. I read that a group of people have written letters to major toy makers asking them to stop making tv commercials aimed at children. One man who wrote a letter said that he now has to tell his kids he cannot get them that particular toy and the kid will be dissapointed! Are you kidding me! Major toy makers market is children... I have no problem telling my children that I am not able to get something for them. Do I like telling them that, not always, because I want to get them what they want. My children also know the position we are in, they are also 15 and 18 and that may make a difference. But come on this guy doesn't want to tell his kid he can't get that for them, bull, eat your pride. Do you know how many things my youngest wants me to look at, I'll tell her, oh that is a nice shirt. Doesn't mean I'm going to go get it for her, should I complain to the store who is advertising this shirt? No. Should Louis Vuitton not advertise in magazines because I cannot afford the $16,500 jewelry case? It's business and they are going to advertise to their target audiences. Yes our X-mas will be small but will that determine how we feel for our family, it shouldn't. Next year may be different. Who knows. Right now I am controlling what I can. By applying for jobs and being flexible with my schedule, reducing needless spending. Although it seems we have cut out all the fun, what more is there. Food is usually the first to go. I try and remember ones who have nothing. One member of my family (read previous posts) just got fired, bad time to get fired, and his firing was something he could control. I think about the others that will hurt because of his getting fired. Now a days it seems most of us are expendable, my husband walks the straight and narrow at work, giving 110%, making himself known to those who matter. So the next time lay offs come around he hopefully will be the one who stays.